THE HEARTS SAID ABOUT DREAM GIRL & DREAM GUY

DREAM GIRL
First of all, human beings were created in pairs and there are wisdoms behind Allah’s creation why Allah creates us to look for the spouse. Actually, in Islamic point of view, Islam encourage their believers to married the woman in order to perform the commandment of Allah and to give birth to the baby so that the new born can take over the future in one generation to another as well as to sustain the society in healthy way of life.
Talk about the dream girl, mostly men would like to prefer and choose their spouse based on the appearances such as have a beautiful face, beautiful body, attractive, so on and so forth. But for me, it is no longer perpetual if men look for women in such kind of attitude to get involve in relation with their partner because the beautiful face will no longer maintain its pretty and the beautiful body will somehow become old and weak in some other days. That is why Islam commands the men to think carefully and wisely as well as to correct their intention before choosing their partners to become part of their life. What I would like to emphasize here is that choosing the spouse must be done in correct way and not just to play around and hang out with women just for fun. It is absolutely wrong and forbidden in Islam! Women were created by Allah to be respected and the Muslims men must take care of them by living together as a partner to share the problems and solve it together, having mutual understanding, caring each other and to be loved to one another.
On the other hand, what I would like to share is that, in Islam, choosing the spouse must be done by looking into four criteria of that woman which are its beautifulness, wealthy, lineage and its religion. Thus, choose the religion one, surely you will be blissful. In addition, I would like to prefer such type of spouse mentioned above and to be loved by her and make my life full of blossoms of happiness. I also would like to add some more criteria about my dream girl which are always covering her aurah, take care of her dignity, full of shyness because of fearing Allah, Taqwa, and piety, behave nicely and absolutely loving, caring and understanding me.

DREAM GUY


“Woman or girl is like a Rose “. Good women will decorate their attitudes with sincerity actions and their sweetest Love to Allah swt. The best Muslimah who totally gave her love to Allah was Rabiatul Adawiyah. For me, I am not the best one to be like Rabiatul Adawiyah, because I also have my dream guy to be one part in my life to be my future spouse means that to my husband.

Every woman has their own dream guy. The first things that I look for my dream guy is based on his religion, that can guide me to The Way of Allah swt and get Allah’s Love. It does not mean I do not care about how handsome they are, but for me it is enough I feel calm, peace and happy when I look his face. Religion is the first because, when he cares about his religion, he will be a responsible person to care all about what Islam wants in human life. It is because; Islam is comprehensive religion that covers all aspects in our life. There are also some criteria of my dream guy which are loving, caring, understanding, and always make me smile even in facing problems.

It is not easy to get the good one what I said above. In my principle, we must good first in order to get the good one. I always remind to myself to be a good girl. Not just to get my dream guy, but to make my life happy in Allah’s Love. I always put my trust to Allah that everything happened for the good reasons. It is unique and beautiful in the planning of Allah. Remember that, woman or girl is like a rose that cover by thorns to take care of the flower from the beetle. Think about it of all girl and woman. How beautiful Allah creates us.